Saturday, 20 October 2012

Is it possible to be 100% honest in a relationship?



Before I proceed to my opinion, here are some quotes that I think we should think about~

A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself – to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart. – Leo F. Buscaglia 

However good or bad you feel about your relationship, the person you are with at this moment is the “right” person, because he or she is the mirror of who you are inside. – Deepak Chopra

In my opinion, there are pro and contras in being 100% honest ia a relationship, it is because not all people we can share anything about ourself. Being honest is also not simple as ABC, because we should think about others feeling and thought, but there are certain people that we can shared and be honest example to our parents, siblings, close friend, but other  than that we must beware.

Being honest especially to our parents is the important thing, but not all the things that should we share because we also need our privacy and sometimes we must look on our parents condition, example if our parents on bad mood, then we should not disturb them. In the other hand, siblings also the next person who we can be honest, but of course not all things, because sometimes people will be bored to hear our problem or anything that we want to share. To share and being honest to parent and sibling of course in important thing such as health problem, study problem and others, and some personal matter furthermore our parent and sibling are the close one to us in all situation.

Being 100% honest in other relationship should be thingking twicely as nowadays, people can back stab others, even your close friend, couple or husband and wife, so better to keep some trust and honest for yourself. In a nutshell we probably should not being 100% honest to others, half is enough as protection to ourself, more we shared with others the more we could get hurt, so just trust yourself and think positively.

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